What's going on everybody? I hope that you all are enjoying your night out or at home watching Netflix. Whatever it is that you do best (lol). Tonight's topic is on #abondthatcantbebroken.
All day I've been seeing so many people post the love of their life, brother, sister and etc. on the love that they share. I have to say that it made my heart melt and influenced me to make a post of my baby sister Kendal and I. To check out the pic follow me on Instagram (thekenloshow_). Looking at these photos just had me in awe because it shows that love still exist and there are people out there who still aren't afraid to show their love for someone. In today's world people are so scarred from their past that they refuse to love again. They don't have the courage or they choose not to have it.
People don't know how important it is when we build these relationships with those who encourage us to be better in life. The type of bonds we need are those that motivate us to change our lives and take risks. We can't walk around mad at the world about things we can't change. If we hold grudges that's poison to ourselves not the other person. For example: to hold a grudge is like drinking poison thinking it would make the other sick while you're hurting yourself. Don't be that person.
Sometimes we we may go through some arguments or disagreemnts with the ones we love but if you think about everything you've been through good or bad, would you be satisfied with moving forward and not speaking again? If God called that person home, would you be satisfied with the relationship especially if it could have been fixed? Think about these things and remember tomorrow is not promised. The people that come into our lives (whether they are here to stay or go) have a reason to be there.
The bonds that are meant to be will be and you will know through the actions that that person shows you. Remember actions speak louder than words. Don't take those strong bonds for granted. If it is broken and you have the chance to fix it, don't take it for granted!
Praise God and Stay Humble ✊🏾
Time and time again we become this person who finds themselves wanting to do better but we become blind to the fact that we are stopping ourselves form doing it. The main reason could be a relationship. I can't speak for everyone but for me, I can be too much of a "people pleaser" which is a gift and curse.
People become so comfortable with you pleasing them that it becomes a problem that you want to be selfish with your time and your life overall. Anything is possible if you put your mind to it no matter how old you are or what circumstances you're in. We also make mistakes by getting distracted by worrying about others and the person we're with and forget about ourselves. If you have to let go of someone I can't say that it will be easy but it may be worth it.
Your life is in your hands and you have every right to do with it what you want as long as it means you the blessings you deserve. Also without hurting those around you. Staying around people or someone to please them could potentially ruin that mindset that you once had about taking care of yourself first, saving for that apartment you want or looking for that better paying job to take care of yourself.
There's nothing wrong with being selfish with yourself. Those that have a problem with that are afraid of being alone and have their own issues to deal with. In addition, to be alone doesn't make you lonely. Being alone is to get you set for life and whatever that is for you will come to you. We all need a reality check to get our minds right even if it means letting go.
Praise God and Stay Humble ✊🏾
Hey it's been a while everyone but I hope that you all have checked out my previous post. I miss you all. Hugs and kisses. This morning I want to talk about how we should me each day count on the road to where want to be.
This is morning I want you to think about how far you've come and how far you want to go. As far as myself I haven't made it yet but when I think about where I want to be, I think about what needs to go and stay. Some of things that need to go in our lives are the things that means us no good. Some of these things can be friends and family. Sometimes we are living in toxic situations and find ourselves losing direction. If there is anything that I've notice about my life is that I began to put God last. Though I run into some people who are good they can't amount to who has the most power.
If it wasn't for God I would have still lived in my depression. If anything should stay in our lives it is God. We always wonder why our lives are the way they are and why we make certain decisions that turn out for the worst. We should give our problems to God but that doesn't mean we should forget about Him. God has blessed so many of us through the worst and each day we should thank Him for it. Each day we should make our blessings count and realize that even the failures are our test. God is life's Father figure and we should take note that there are lessons in this life to learn from. Learning can only get us to the next level if we do learn instead of making the same mistakes.
Each day should count because we are alive and have another chance to get it right.
Each day should count because we have goals that we made or have to make to achieve
Each day should count because we have a purpose
Each day should count because God isn't finished working on us yet.
Life is is not to be rushed. We have to accept the things that we can not change and make plans for what we can change. The only way we can get out of our problems is if we get up and do something.
1. Seek God
Praise God and Stay Humble ✊🏾
Good morning everyone, I wanted to take a break from painting and share with you a video that could help your life for the better. Also when you're feeling down about your life or feel that you can do better, this video will help.
This is video is a guide that will help you continue the road that you are on or help you find out what path you want be on. After watching this video I decided to share this with you to watch on my page for a constant reminder.
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(video via Facebook)
Hey again everyone, I was gone for a day and night but as you can see I am back. I am about to speak on a topic that has been heavy on my mind regarding the LGBTQ community about lesbians being against bi sexual females or have an issue with dating them.
I understand why a lesbian would have an issue with dating a bid sexual because they feel that that woman should know what she want. Also she should make the decision of what's best for her. Bring bi sexual woman there are going to people who bash you about liking both because they think that you will have both a woman and a man at the same time. Me personally I think it's out of the ordinary or have both because that can put all three people at risk of sexually transmitted diseases. Also stir up many issues sauce as jealousy and possessiveness.
Next, on the other hand as far as a lesbian would think, I've been told from another lesbian that they wouldn't deal with a bi sexual women because they want to be the only one they deal with and they would feel as though they can't give their partner what they want. Women and men have similarities and the biggest difference of both is their anatomy. Also those who are heterosexual say those that are bi sexual are confused because they like both and have the notion that they don't know what they want.
I can't speak for everyone else but what I can say that when I like a woman or a man, my mind and my focus is on them. There are people who can like and date two people and I think that's where the confusion settles in. One of my lesbian friends let me in on the fact that some lesbians feel like they have competition. Honestly, women (who are lesbian) and men shouldn't have competition with on another if they like the same thing and there is a place for dildos 😉😂.
WHAT DO YOU FEEL ABOUT LESBIANS AND BI SEXUAL FEMALES DATING?
Hey everyone, I am back at it again with another post to enlighten your minds. As always feel free to comment and let me know what you think.
Tonight I want to touch on the topic of being single. I am not single but being single after a heartbreak that ended on bad terms can be difficult. Let's get into it. First of all being single and going back to what once hurt is not the easiest but it also isn't the hardest. Being single can actually be fun. When you're single you go on dates with different people and getting to know different personalities. On the other hand sometimes we avoid that because we became comfortable with our last relationship. Because of that, that person is all we know and the only person we want to be with. Sometimes we even wait for the person to change which is another reason why we avoid dating or use people to as a distraction.
Your single season should be your best season because you become closer with yourself. We always take the time out to get to know other people but no so much of ourselves. We also stem away from God. Your life is nothing without God. Especially while we're young we're still learning life each and we don't know what or who we're going to run into. Life is full surprises. In the midst of your single season NEVER feel like you have to date and NEVER feel like you have to sleep with people to move on. Having sex with people can lead to bad spirits that can consume you for the rest of your life.
Enjoy your our life to the fullest and live it positively. Love yourself and try new things. Life is also about taking risks because if you dont you'll never know what you're capable of. Treat your life like every day is your last. We only have one life to live and it is meant to be loved to the fullest. Don't stress about the little things, ignore those who try to belittle you and stay away from your past. Your past is your past for a reason. Things happen for a reason and if something is not meant for you, don't force it. Don't force anything and never forget to thankful for what you have.
Praise God and Stay Humble ✊🏾
To my father and my superhero, I want to tell you that you are the best father in the world. We have been through so much together and I can't imagine life without you. I am blossoming into the woman I am today because of you.
Thank you for being the one who believed me still believes in me.
Thank you for everything you've taught me
Thank you for the advice
Thank you for having my back
Thank you for all the love that you give.
I'm glad to say that you are my father. I love you dad ❤️
MESSAGE: This post is not to bash a Muslim or Christian.
Within both religions it is known thy being gay is a sin. To me and also to another majority of people, love is love. I say that love is love no matter where it comes from and where you fine. This is whether you are a woman or man who happens to like the opposite or same sex. Unfortunately there becomes a different problem other than the fact that being gay is a sin. No sin is greater. Also between these two religions one looks at as being a pass while the other will look as it as you be shunned.
In society, a person who is Christin will bash a Muslim for being gay because of them being garbed up. The reality is the person who is not garbed up is just as bad regardless of the beliefs. A person who is or isn't garbed does not make them any less of a person but it also doesn't make them perfect. They don't get a pass for what they do outside of their religion.
Christians and Muslims deal with some of the same things if they apart of the LGBTQ community. Being as though I am apart of the community I understand how it feels when someone keeps questioning if liking the same sex is for you, it's unGodly, it's a sin and etc.
A Muslim shouldn't bash a Christian and the same goes for a Christian to bash a Muslim. We are all equal.
Prais God and Stay Humble ✊🏾
(image via Instagram)
People in the media and all over America can't seem to admit that America is the white man's land. This is not to bash any white person because not all white people are racist. This post is going to focus on the fact that blacks aren't safe here and the system is against blacks.
America knows of the things that blacks have done for America and for the people but somehow blacks end up being put in a negative light as if we are the problem. "White America" is the problem. Why should a black man or woman feel uneasy because of the color of their skin? Skin has nothing do to with character. The color that you are is what you will be for the rest of your life but your character can always change.
Being black I can't speak for another race because I'm not them but I can say that because your skin is darker there is havoc because of what is being taught. The whites that are racist were raised to be against blacks. Nobody is born a racist and nobody is born to hate. I don't have a problem with being black because I'm proud of who I am. At the same time I am woke abour the things that could possibly happen to me. Being a black woman isn't easy because a majority of whites know what you're capable of.
When "White America" sees the power an African American can have they don't know what to do so they result to violence. Think about the slavery, police brutality and how blacks can be treated at work because of the way they look. What's best for my people is for us to rise because if we believe what "White America" tries to instill in us or think they are for us then we might as well be labeled as "coons".
My people are better than what we are protrayed as but we as a people also need to do better. At times we give the "white man" a reason but we know what we can do as a people so we might as well do it. We need to come together and help one another and we can take over. Be black and be proud.
Praise God and Stay Humble ✊🏾
I talk to a cop every now and then who comes in my job and we always talk about life and journey of where it can take you. He reminds me that I am young and I am inconsistent because I'm trying to get my life together being as though I'm in my early twenties. I can't argue with that because in your early twenties you feel like you have the right to take your time but you also feel as though you should be in a position to be stable in all aspects of your life.
The truth life can be as easy or as hard as you make it. Life is not meant to be easy because every step you take in life is a journey to learn everything about everything and the people you encounter. There is nothing wrong with living your love and trusting your journey but question your actions and motives for a great journey. The cop told me this, "Close your eyes and ask yourself, 'How will I eat tomorrow?'".
What you do in life will determine how you will live your life in the long run. Energy and the way you treat people goes a long way. In addition you will receive a life long abundance of blessings for the person that you are on the inside. Everything that glitters is not gold. Just because a person is beautiful on the outside does not mean that they do you any good. Sometimes we deal with people who come into our lives and we deal with them so much because we care but we end up missing so much of our own lives trying to please others. Think about if you lost yourself to the point that you couldn't get back to the point to save yourself to become better again.
Never lose yourself to please others or live a dream that is not meant for you. Always think about, "What if tomorrow didn't come?".
Praise God and Stay Humble ✊🏾
My name is Kennedie. I am a young woman still learning the ways of the world and how to manage. I am currently pursuing a degree in Mass Media. My purpose in creating my blog is to inspire others and to share as well as receive different points of view.