You could not tell me back then on ATL that T.I. and Lauren London were not in love. They had such a great connection, couldn’t stop talking to each other or being with one another. Not only that New New wanted to let him know the truth about her life but she was too scared to lose him. When she finally did let him know, he was hurt but he knew that he really had love for her and that he could make it work since he cared. Long story short, I really loved the bond between them even if they didn’t become gf and bf, I would still be here for it. The bond before the actual relationship shows you how much someone cares and where their mental is at. For me, it’s also the “cute stage” where two people are getting to know one another, they’re friends but still don’t want anyone to know they’re in contact.
We all love this stage until the feelings get involved but even that is the good part because what if this person actually likes you wants to be that person to show you the real version of love? Love shouldn’t come with expectations just because you decide to do something for someone. Do it because you care but if a person cares that much to do as much as you in the relationship or friendship they will actually do it. Never force things. Forcing it means it’s nothing there. New New and Rashad cared about each other but you could tell Rashad really wanted to make New New smile and thought she was beautiful. He didn’t force her to do anything and didn’t put any pressure on her knowing he liked her. He also tried to front on her like she wasn’t nothing more but he knew he was head over heels about her.
Bonds like this let you know what a person is willing and not willing to do for you. When New New lied, Rashad had every right to be upset and stop talking to her. Self worth is knowing that you won’t put up with anything or anybody that doesn’t put anything of value in your life. We should know this by now. We need people in our lives that will care for us yet hold us accountable to be better. That’s all folks! Enjoy!
My name is Kennedie. I am a young woman still learning the ways of the world and how to manage. I am currently pursuing a degree in Mass Media. My purpose in creating my blog is to inspire others and to share as well as receive different points of view.