A lot of women will complain about finding someone who is real, meets their standards and someone who is ALL for them. There is nothing wrong with that but a lot of the standards that women want are materialistic. Some of them want a man who approaches them with respect but checks out what kind of shoes, belt and car he has before listening to what he has to say to them.
Personally, I'm not going to talk to a man who yells "yo", "shawty with the bald head", "wassup yo" and etc. There's a way to approach someone and gather thier attention without yelling. Women aren't dogs, they're human. Back to the topic, women want respect, time and loyalty (if the talking ever goes that far, that is). When a man is willing to give them that, they become scared and think they want more. That's understandable but ALL men aren't the same. That's a FACT!.
All in all, don't say ask for something that you aren't willing to handle. If you can't handle it stay to yourself until you can. A man could ask a woman for her name, have a good conversation and he will still get the "stank face". Why? He took the time out to talk to you because he's interested. There's NOTHING wrong with interest but there's something wrong when no one is being honest and establishing an understanding in the beginning of things.
Here's the thing, if you want a good man PUT YOUR PRIDE ASIDE! Pride will leave you lonely to become a cat lady. A lot of these women don't take a chance because they have too much baggage and most of the time they want a man to deal with it. No man is going to do that but if he is interested and wants that time give him a chance to know the real you and not the baggage you bring.
My name is Kennedie. I am a young woman still learning the ways of the world and how to manage. I am currently pursuing a degree in Mass Media. My purpose in creating my blog is to inspire others and to share as well as receive different points of view.