As we get older we date more and find a special person that fits our interest. The more we like them, we want to be around them and spend every minute talking to them. What we also fail to realize is that we get so in like that we miss to get the know the real person behind what we like about them.
Yes we are just getting to know this person but what do we really know? Do we know if they have trust issues? Do we know what kind of relationships they've actually been through? Are they lying about what they've been through? We don't necessarily ask ourselves these things or look out for clues.
On the other hand a person can be so in like with you that they begin to plan a future with you and start to become possessive because they fear losing you. To be in a relationship where you feel controlled can happen so many ways. That person can become abusive verbally or physically, that person can begin to have trust issues with you or they're insecure. Nobody wants to deal with those problems.
A person that is scared to lose you needs to realize that you have a life outside of the relationship, because before the relationship you had that life involved with family, friends and the things that you love to do.
Don't be in a relationship where you have to look out for every direction in fear that you can't live your life because you have control of what you put up with.
Priase God and Stay Humble ✊🏾💯
My name is Kennedie. I am a young woman still learning the ways of the world and how to manage. I am currently pursuing a degree in Mass Media. My purpose in creating my blog is to inspire others and to share as well as receive different points of view.