Recently, I walked away from relationship that I was in for 3 years and it was very hard for me. The thing is, when you love someone, you want nothing but the best for them but they also have to want it for themselves. Knowing this, you have keep in mind that as an individual, you cannot take care of anyone else unless you do it for yourself. I had to learn to be a little more selfish with me because for years I always put everyone first and all of my energy into something but falling short. This go round I wanted to do both and I wanted to reason with certain situations for the better but things didn’t work out the way I thought it would. Sometimes you have to be a little selfish with you to get yourself together for you to be better the next go round.
I learned, I laughed, I cried and smiled but sometimes two lovers just can’t love around THEIR own time. This was a hard pill to swallow for the both of us but things had to happen for the best. This taught me that no matter how much you love someone, you have to learn how to let them go. Sometimes we have to practice the Butterfly Effect as well. If you let it go and it comes back, it was meant to be but if not, you have to let it go because that’s the plan. Putting your needs first does not make you a bad person but sometimes you have to make a way for yourself. Making a way for you, will lead to better things and the right people will come to you. Also, self love and care never steered anyone wrong and that is why putting yourself first is more important than putting your ALL into others.
Put you first and the rest will come! Stay blessed. That’s all folks!
My name is Kennedie. I am a young woman still learning the ways of the world and how to manage. I am currently pursuing a degree in Mass Media. My purpose in creating my blog is to inspire others and to share as well as receive different points of view.