I always see this debate how a man should pay all the bills because the woman cooks and cleans. Then I see because the man pays all of the bills, the woman should want to cook and clean. I don't see why this is such a great debate because love and being in a relationship should not have a specific role on what task someone does. The man or woman can cook, clean or attend to each other. For one it's common sense and it's the right thing to do for someone you care about.
If a man decided he wants to pay for all of the bills, that's HIS choice and if the woman wants to cook and clean that's HER choice. When you're in a relationship with someone you're serious about you don't become a prisoner and there aren't any rules as to who takes care of this task or another in the house. Also it's always the woman saying the man should pay all of the bills but when you got married you decided to share with this man. You decided to share a bed, bathroom, kitchen, and everything else with this man. Why not feel the need to help him if he can't pay or a bill or two. Who not go 50/50 with him? I mean that's how I think of it.
Looking at it from a personal perspective, if I decided to marry a man and I know that he works hard, takes care of me and makes a great family man, I feel that it should be my duty to go 50/50 with him. Why you ask? Because he chose to share himself with me, love me and spend the rest of his life with me. In addition, he made it his duty to want to take care of me as well.
Loving shouldn't be about what you could lose, it should be about what you can gain.
My name is Kennedie. I am a young woman still learning the ways of the world and how to manage. I am currently pursuing a degree in Mass Media. My purpose in creating my blog is to inspire others and to share as well as receive different points of view.