Reasons to this question isn't always accurate. We all have been in a relationship where it wasn't working out for the moment, break up a little and feel like when the moment is good for you, you get back with that person. There are so many reasons why we go back to the people that we were once in a relationship with.
Three main reasons could be:
1.) To fill a void
2.) Afraid of being lonely
3.) We can't let go
1.) To fill a void- We begin to get comfortable with a person but they are constantly giving you reasons to leave. With that being in mind you know if you leave, you'll both be hurt and you'll miss the good you two used to have. The crazy part is neither one of you are doing anything to get these old times back. You two are becoming very comfortable, with each other's company. Therefore you two or just one person are trying to fill a void.
2.) Afraid of being lonely- People are very afraid of being lonely. No one wants to die alone or not have anyone by their side. For those who are comfortable with their own company can embrace loving themselves and focus on their priorities to get themselves together. For those who need company, they can't enjoy what it's like doing all for themselves, getting their lives on track and knowing they can do better if they are in a situation that is keeping them away from something good. Being lonely can be scary and we do begin to miss that certain individual. We miss how they understanding they can be, accepting they can be, being that person you can talk to and be yourself around. There is someone out there for everyone.
3.) We can't let go- Sometimes we can't let go because of hope or we feel like a piece of us is missing. As far as hope,m we keep hoping that as person will see the good in you and want to change for the better. Instead of the changing they constantly are stuck in their old habits because of their old habits because of their bad past. Their past travels with them causing them to become the people that hurt them. You see their potential hoping they will change and you can't let go. As far as a missing part of yourself, you will feel incomplete and that with that feeling you will yearn to be with them. In life the person you are with will or will not be the one for you but you see something in them that other didn't. People hold an image of what they want that person to be but doesn't want to face reality and see things for what they really are. The situation may not be good for them at the moment and that's the reality.
Life is a cycle and the situations that were are put in , we have to learn from them. If we don't learn we won't grow.
-Praise God and Stay Humble
My name is Kennedie. I am a young woman still learning the ways of the world and how to manage. I am currently pursuing a degree in Mass Media. My purpose in creating my blog is to inspire others and to share as well as receive different points of view.