(post via Spiritual World)
I thought this was a good question. Would you actually have a sit down with the person who hurt you to understand why they hurt you? I think I could because there is not a definite answer that I have gotten only because I want to know to get confirmation. The best closure I have gotten was blocking the person because if they can not tell me then there is no point.
Sometimes people leave with unanswered questions but I do not think going back for answers right out of the relationship would work. Once you leave the relationship for good the beginning of going through the break up is hard because that is the person who you wanted to spend the rest of your life with. That is also the person you thought was the one for you. While you may have these thoughts sometimes that person may have wanted something different and did not know how to tell you which is why they hurt you.
In some cases a person will tell you what they want but remember that you have the choice of dealing or not. If you two feel like things could be taken to another level there is nothing wrong with trying but keep in mind what the person wanted out of the relationship. Those who do not even want a relationship begin to catch feelings and do not know how to handle them and that could make things fail. Still what is the real answer as to why someone would really want to hurt someone who was down for them through whatever? Why was it not you? Why come back repeatedly to hurt someone, apologize and do it again?
I have thought about these questions time and time again but because I know I'm not going to get that definite answer that was the best answer. Sometimes no answer is the best answer.
My name is Kennedie. I am a young woman still learning the ways of the world and how to manage. I am currently pursuing a degree in Mass Media. My purpose in creating my blog is to inspire others and to share as well as receive different points of view.